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You’ve Spent Your Life Giving to Everyone Else.

Now It’s Time to Take Back Your Own Dreams.


A private mastermind for high-achieving women ready to break the cycle of over-giving, reclaim their time, and finally put themselves first without guilt.

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  • You’re always the one holding everything together at home, at work, in every relationship.

  • You keep hoping they’ll see how much you give, but the appreciation never comes.

  • You feel trapped in a cycle of exhaustion, constantly sacrificing your own needs.

  • You’ve thought about making a change, but guilt keeps pulling you back.

  • You know something has to shift now.

If this is hitting home, you’re not alone. And more importantly you don’t have to fix this alone.


Six Months from Now, I’ll Thank Myself

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Here’s What You’ll Gain:

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  • Every month, you’ll have the tools, accountability, and community to help you stop surviving and start thriving.

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Why They Hate You When You Heal

April 18, 20252 min read

You start healing. Suddenly, they start hating.
Ever notice that?

You say no.
You set boundaries.
You speak your truth—finally.

And out of nowhere, the people who claimed to love you… flip.

They say you’ve “changed.”
That you’re “selfish now.”
That you’ve “forgotten who you are.”

No. You just remembered.


👁️ Why Healing Makes People Uncomfortable

Here’s the truth:

Some people only loved you because you were broken enough to need them.
To keep peace. Stay small. Be available.

But when you evolve—when you stop living to be liked—you become unrecognizable to the people who only knew your wounds.

They don’t hate you.
They hate that you’re no longer easy to control.


🧠 The Hidden Grief of Growth

When you heal:

  • You outgrow relationships built on dysfunction

  • You stop explaining your boundaries

  • You realize you’ve been living someone else’s version of your life

Yes, you’ll lose people.
Yes, they’ll talk.

But you’ll gain you.

And that’s the only win that matters.


💣 Burnout Isn’t Just Fatigue—It’s Suppressed Selfhood

You’re not just tired—you’re emotionally bankrupt from over-functioning.

That’s why I built the RAMS Method™:
A soul-aligned, trauma-informed system that helps high-performing women like you rewire old patterns and reclaim power at the root.

No fluff. No performance coaching.
Real emotional mastery. Real results.


⚔️ This Is Who I Serve

  • The executive who looks unstoppable but feels numb

  • The overachiever afraid to slow down

  • The mother who’s secretly afraid she’s failing her family by being present

Through The Woman Reclaimed™ and A Million Dreams™, we rebuild not just identity—but sovereignty.


🧭 Your Next Move (If You’re Ready to Be Untouchable)


Let them hate.
Let them gossip.
Let them miss the version of you that served their comfort.

You’re not here to shrink anymore.
You’re here to lead—from wholeness.

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Baz Porter is the visionary founder of R.A.M.S by Baz, a dedicated high-performance coaching program designed to elevate the lives of CEOs, executives, and entrepreneurs. With over 15 years of refining his methodologies, Baz is a luminary in transforming leadership abilities through the core principles of his R.A.M.S framework—Results, Attitude, Mastery, and Systems. His coaching transcends conventional boundaries by addressing not only the outward appearances of success but the inner conflicts and turmoil often overlooked by others.

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"I used to feel guilty for prioritizing myself"

Baz Porter is a powerhouse. His direct approach destroys limiting beliefs and pushes leaders to reach their peak."

"WOW JUST WOW"

Before this, I didn’t even realize how much I had lost myself. I was giving to everyone but me.

"Thank You For Changing My Life"

Now I feel powerful. The shifts I’ve made inside this group changed everything.

"Within a few weeks, I had set boundaries"

I never thought I’d have the courage to set. I feel like I have my life back and I didn’t have to burn everything down to do it.

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  • “I’m already stretched thin… will this just add more to my plate?”

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  • “Will this actually work for me?”

    If you’ve tried books, podcasts, and “doing it on your own” with no real change, this is for you.

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